There are just over 7 BILLION different people in this world. Each with a story, different personalities, and outlooks on life. So why don't we engage more? We are constantly surrounded by new people, but how many of us actually take the time to converse with them? Not a passing, "Hi how are you?" But a real conversation with them about the thousands of subjects there are. Books, movies, ideals, aspirations. People are interesting, and so are you!
Instead, we pull out our phones and obsess over how many virtual friends we have. And even worse, WHILE we are with people!
This week, as I was waiting to be picked up at the airport, there was a man standing next to me. He casually mentioned how busy the airport was. At first, I was thought, "Why are you talking to me?" Then, I stopped myself to realize, "wow, this is nice." Instead of trying to find something on my phone to keep me busy, I could be present in the moment with this human being in front of me. A person who traveled just like me and awaits a loved one to pick them up. Someone with a family, a job, and interests.
As human beings, we need to interact with human beings. Not the idea of a human being on social media. The short conversation you have with a passerby is so much more rewarding than following a celebrity on twitter or stalking the pictures of your countless Facebook friends. Don't get me wrong, social media is a great way to stay in touch, but not at the cost of the person in front of you. To be a person we need to be with other persons.
TAKE ACTION!
What are you afraid of? It can be uncomfortable to just approach a random person and start talking to them. Obviously, I'm not saying you should creepily approach someone.
But here's a challenge: When you are in a public place waiting for something or someone, instead of naturally taking your phone out, say hello to the person sitting or standing next to you. Make a comment about the weather, or the line, or even compliment them. ENGAGE!
EXTRA FOOD FOR THOUGHT: Stop yourself from taking out your phone and engaging in any social media while you are with another person.
